Reconnecting

When Jim and I were newly married 28 years ago, living in the city was always something we dreamed of doing when our children were older, something hard to imagine as young parents dealing with babies, toddlers, and the trying years of tweens and teens. But, viola, our time has come! The girls are happily settled in work and college. After living in Florida for the past 10+ years it has been fun quasi-living in Boston. Not only to explore the city and spend time with each other, but to reconnect with old friends. Being busy with day to day living and activities, there is always an excuse not to sit down and pick up the phone, email, or even (gasp) send a hand written note. Days, weeks, months, then years go by and before you know it, it seems almost awkward to make contact. So more time goes by and friendships that once seemed like they would last forever become a distant, pleasant memory. It takes two to stay in touch, but one to initiate the dialogue. Not that this is anything new, but in a time of constantly evolving technology staying in touch couldn't be easier, so why is it that we don't? As we prepare to make yet another move across the country to another state, another city, I renew my determination to take the time to stay connected.